Traditional Wedding

Lagos 2026

Ìgbé Nkwu × Ìgbéyàwó

Where Igbo wine-carrying meets Yoruba engagement — a celebration of heritage, family, and love.

📍 Venue & Location

Our traditional ceremony will take place in the heart of Lagos, bringing together family and friends to witness the union of two cultures.

The venue offers a beautiful outdoor space perfect for the colorful celebration of Igbo and Yoruba traditions, with indoor areas for comfort and elegance.

Venue Address

To Be Announced

Full venue details will be shared closer to the date. Please ensure your RSVP is submitted to receive updates.

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Map Coming Soon

Interactive map with directions will be available once venue is confirmed.

👗 Aso-Ebi Guide

Aso-ebi (meaning "family cloth" in Yoruba) is a uniform dress code that creates visual unity among family and guests. Wearing the selected fabric shows your connection to the celebration.

Gold Aso-Oke

For Groom's Family

₦ TBA

Wine Lace

For Bride's Family

₦ TBA

Emerald Ankara

For Friends & Extended Family

₦ TBA

How to Order: Aso-ebi sales will open soon. Join our mailing list via the RSVP form to be notified when fabric becomes available. Tailoring services can be recommended upon request.

Dress Code

👔 Men

  • Agbada (flowing robe) in aso-ebi colors
  • Buba and Sokoto (shirt and trousers)
  • Isiagu (Igbo patterned shirt) with wrapper
  • Fila cap or traditional headwear
  • Native sandals or dress shoes

👰 Women

  • Iro and Buba (wrapper and blouse)
  • Gele (headtie) — we'll share tutorials!
  • Lace or Ankara two-piece
  • Statement jewelry with coral accents
  • Comfortable heels or elegant flats

🌍 International Guests

  • Traditional attire in event colors welcome
  • Elegant formal wear in gold, wine, or emerald
  • We can connect you with tailors in Lagos
  • Rental options available — ask us!
  • Comfort is key — it will be a joyful celebration

📋 Order of Events

10:00 AM
Guest Arrival & Seating
Guests are welcomed and seated. Light refreshments served. Live traditional music sets the mood.
11:00 AM
Ikụ Aka Ọbị (Knocking on the Door)
The groom's family formally arrives to request the bride's hand. Traditional greetings and introductions between families.
11:30 AM
Bride Price Presentation
Symbolic items are presented according to Igbo custom. The bride's family reviews and accepts the gifts.
12:00 PM
Ìgbé Nkwu (Wine Carrying)
The bride searches for her groom among the guests, then presents him with palm wine to drink — sealing the union.
12:30 PM
Prayers & Blessings
Elders from both families offer prayers, blessings, and words of wisdom for the couple's journey together.
1:00 PM
Yoruba Rites & Prostration
Honoring Eniola's Yoruba heritage with traditional prostration (Dobale) and blessings from her family elders.
1:30 PM
Feasting & Celebration
Time to eat! Enjoy jollof rice, pounded yam, egusi, suya, small chops, and more Nigerian delicacies.
3:00 PM
Music, Dancing & Spraying
Live band and DJ take over. Traditional money spraying on the couple as everyone dances in celebration.
5:00 PM
Couple's Exit & Photo Session
The newlyweds make their grand exit. Final photos and well-wishes before the celebration winds down.

📖 Cultural Guide

Our ceremony blends two rich Nigerian traditions. Here's what to expect:

Ìgbé Nkwu (Igbo Wine Carrying)

ị ghọ nwaanyị di — "She becomes a wife"

The bride carries a cup of palm wine and searches among seated men for her groom. When she finds him, she kneels and offers the wine. His drinking signifies acceptance of the marriage.

Ìgbéyàwó (Yoruba Engagement)

Ẹ kú àjọdún — "Congratulations on the celebration"

The groom's family formally proposes, bringing gifts and the bride price. The Alaga (MC) guides the ceremony with humor and tradition. Prostration shows respect to elders.

Money Spraying

Na money dey move — "Money is moving"

Guests "spray" cash on the dancing couple as a blessing for prosperity. It's a joyful, celebratory act — don't be shy to join in! All denominations welcome.

Kola Nut Ceremony

Ọja anụ adịghị enwe isi — "He who brings kola brings life"

Breaking kola nut is a sacred Igbo tradition of hospitality and blessing. The eldest man present offers prayers before the nut is shared among guests.

🛡️ Security & Travel Tips

🚗 Getting There

  • Arrive early — Lagos traffic is unpredictable. Plan for extra time.
  • Uber and Bolt are reliable options for transportation.
  • Parking will be available at the venue — attendants will guide you.
  • Consider carpooling with other guests staying nearby.

🔒 Security

  • The venue will have professional security throughout the event.
  • Keep valuables secure and be aware of your surroundings.
  • A designated area will be available for bag check if needed.
  • Emergency contacts will be shared before the event.

☀️ Weather & Comfort

  • Lagos is warm and humid — dress in breathable fabrics.
  • Sunscreen and fans/hand-fans recommended.
  • Indoor air-conditioned areas will be available for breaks.
  • Stay hydrated — water will be readily available.

📱 Stay Connected

  • Local SIM cards available at the airport (MTN, Glo, Airtel).
  • WiFi will be available at the venue.
  • Share your moments with hashtag: #UcheAndEni2026
  • WhatsApp group for guests — link in confirmation email.

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